Unfollow a bunch of food bloggers.
Face up and tell people that I don't agree with their choices but that doesn't mean I won't be friends with them. Leave the rest up to them.
And finally, stay in touch with family members a bit more regularly. I may not make sense of them but that does not mean we cannot reach out to each other in times of need. And that's okay. Sometimes, all people want from you is a bit of listening.